一个关于英语用法习惯的问题

Question

他和我打碎了窗户。
是说 I and he broke the window.
还是 He and I broke the window.
好像坏事都是“我”在前的吧……

Answer 1

汉语的“我和他”根据行为者的主次可以由下几种讲法：

1. 同等地位但尊重他人：he and I
2. 以 I 为主：
I with him;
I together with him,
I along with him
I as well as he
I ..., and he as well
3. 以 he 为主：
he with me;
he together with me,
he along with me
he ... and I as well
he as well as I

你说的也有一定的道理，既然是办了坏事，自己又想承担主要错误，那就可以选择第二种说法。
I with him broke the window.
I together with him broke the window.
I along with him broke the window.
I as well as he broke the window .
I broke the window and he as well

语言是灵活的，不要给自己制造难题，凡是应该回避的说法都要用其他的同义句变通。

Answer 2

He and I broke the window
没有好事坏事之分吧，都是我在后

Answer 3

英语一般都是把我放在后面。。

Answer 4

习惯上都是我放在后边，好事坏事都是如此

无论哪种语言，婉转的表达方式有很多种，楼主可以避开这样的表达方式，选用其他用语来表达。另外注意说话的语气就可以。谁在前后都无所谓。

此问题可不深究。