Many of us sometimes lose our temper, shout at people including our family members and then repent of it. But remember “words are sharper than sword.’ A word once spoken out cannot be taken back and can be the most powerful weapon that can kill a person’s mood. It could also create a wound in one’s heart thought his or her life. So words are to be used carefully for better relationships. Short temper causes harm not only to others but also to oneself by gifting (赠与) you ailments which could make you suffer all along.
Now it is important to understand that short temper is a serious problem and it has to be removed from your personality forever. I’ve some formulas for you below if you really want to work towards controlling your short temper.
Remember that you are not perfect. Many times you shout at others for something. Remember that in that way you also are to be shouted at many times because you also commit mistakes and you also are not perfect, either.
Before getting angry at anyone, look at that person or people and think about 2 good things they have done for you. If they haven’t done anything, think about two blessings you have in life. Your mind will calm down. Practice it.
When you lose your temper and you are about to shout at someone, just ask yourself whether you like to shouted at. Will you like to be treated in a manner you are going to treat others right now? Your answer will be NO, right? Then why do you want something to be done to others which you don’t like to be done to you?