第1个回答 2013-11-23
In today's young students, many people do not pay attention correspond to some rituals, a sense of ritual, leading ideological and moral decline. Some people at school do not respect others, not courteous, do not speak politely; in the community do not know what to call someone else, even arbitrary, abusive language mouthful of rotten language; understand honor their elders at home, conceit, do whatever they want, such as common image These phenomena have caused us to think deeply. Young people learn "etiquette" to learn to respect others as a starting point, ritual itself is the external manifestation of respect for people, "etiquette" in the words come from, the words come from the heart, from the heart to respect people only, will have a decent etiquette behavior, respect for others is a necessary attitude and primary human contact. Learning "etiquette" to focus on practice, a person can only etiquette can be reflected in the words and deeds, do not say you can not say that a person moving there, "etiquette", everyone in the understanding of the requirements on the basis of etiquette, dare In everyday words and deeds, the usual treat people in civilized and polite to show their image. Some students usually know talk civilized, polite, but in public places or encounters are not very familiar with the people, the "etiquette" norms can not play, it is their lack of confidence.
To become a true gentleman, there must be a gentleman, to have morality, has the connotation; wants to become a real lady requires temperament, talk, dress and other clothing areas have a high personal accomplishment. In modern civilized society, etiquette has become the basis to establish good interpersonal relationships. People in this society, only to learn how to respect people, how to get along with others, civilization, society can truly stand on its own, in order to self-esteem in order to create a harmonious cultural environment and civilized society.
Let's call etiquette, call civilization, calling in the near future our campus no longer burning hair, dyed color head, with all kinds of ornaments image appears; calling in the near future our campus made no bike Shuttle traces; calling in the near future we secondary school students wherever they are speaking the language of civilization, civilization doing things.
Answer: If it tragedy - a trial period 9-27 19:32
If you lose today, you are not a failure, because it will come back tomorrow.
If you lose money, you not fail, because the value of life is not in the purse.
If you lost civilization, you are thoroughly failed because you have lost the true meaning of life.
Covers the relationship between civilization and people, people and society, between man and nature. Its main role, first, the pursuit of personal moral perfection, one is in the public interest, public order.
Speaking of civility, I thought of a story. On one occasion, Comrade Lenin downstairs, in the narrow aisle stairs, being met a worker carrying a pot of water floor. That women see Lenin, it is necessary to go back to make way. Lenin stop her, said: "No way, you have to go half carrying things, and I now empty-handed, would you please past it!" He "please" and said very loud, very kind. Then himself tight against the wall, so that women upstairs, he was downstairs. Is not that what good embodies civility?
Here I do not want to give too much to the great example, because it is very easy to make everyone an illusion: that the civility just a great man, the name of talent available, then we will not need to own more or less uncivilized deeds and guilt; or that even practice the requirements of civilization, it is not consequent to become a great man, a celebrity. We not only have ethical personalities, we need a group of people moral.
A common level of social civilization, can reflect a country's level of civilization of a society, a person who does not comply with the civilized society, will affect the self-image of small, large affects national reputation. In the Qing Dynasty, Minister Li ambassador to Russia, in a public, abuse attack, spitting up phlegm, is rendered foreign correspondent big plus, ridicule, disgrace the Chinese people face. This is a non-compliance with the lessons of history civilized society.
Public civilization is a reflection of social consciousness, and public civilization and build on the level of personal morality. Imagine if someone does not pay attention to their own civilized way, he will have good public civilization it? Will not! Personal civility is the root, is this. People have a good public civilization must start with themselves, starting from the side. So Mr. Lu said: "The Chinese want to compete in the world exist, its first in Liren, who stand and then give everything.", "Man" is meant to improve the cultivation of human thought and civilization, human civilization is not the cultivation born with, but acquired through continuous improvement. To improve the personal accomplishment, the first dedicated study to study, improve their cognitive level; awareness reaches a certain level, there is the ability to distinguish right from wrong; With the ability to distinguish right and wrong, we should correct their attitude, not contrary to own conscience, trying to make their words and deeds are in line with ethical standards, they will have to improve their training. This is what the ancients said: investigation of things, extension of knowledge, sincerity, Sacred Hearts, Slim. Improving the personal morality, the public will have a foundation to promote the social civilization.
The atmosphere of a civilized society for his people is also a great influence. Why do you say that? I believe some students have been to Europe or Japan, it is very personal experience. Do not say much, just look seen such a trifle road. As long as the red light, even on the road without a car, foreigners will never cross the road. They think that it is necessary to comply with the public civilization. How, in such an atmosphere, there are unscrupulous who ran a red light it? This is where the power of the social atmosphere. But think again, if we do not start from their own, this social atmosphere come from it?
A reporter access to a Nobel Prize-winning scientist, "Professor, the most important thing in your life is to learn where it?" "In kindergarten, where I learned I was a lifetime thing, for example, There are good things to share with friends, humility, wash hands before eating ...... "We improve their civilized way, too, does not necessarily have to have a great move, but from the side to eat these little things wash. Cultivate the habit of civilization, so that the concept of civilization into the unconscious level from the level of consciousness, so that civilization throughout our every move.
We are young, civility education, many students are forever talking about civility. But seen everywhere on campus discarded boxes, drink bottles, listening to some of the students out of his mouth swearing, how distressing it is not! Are we all "Giant language, dwarves action" Why? Ming Dynasty scholar Wang Shou-ren said, "Knowledge is the idea of the line, the line is known effort; known to be founded, the trip is known as a; .. knowledge and practice is a body, an effort to know and not just unknown." We accept civilization etiquette education, but too mean to fulfill their own, even opposite, which did not accept the social education to follow what is the difference! So we have to practice a civilized society, it is necessary from the "Knowledge and Action" work hard, from their own The words into action and work hard, we must bid farewell to the uncivilized behavior.
中文如下：
在当今的青少年学生中，不少人对应有的礼仪不重视，礼仪观念淡薄，导致思想品德滑坡。一些人在学校里，不会尊重他人，不会礼让，不讲礼貌；在社会上不懂怎样称呼他人，甚至随心所欲，满口粗言烂语；在家里不懂孝敬长辈，唯我独尊，为所欲为等形象屡见不鲜，这些现象不得不引起我们的深思。青少年学习"礼仪"，要以学会尊重他人为起点，礼仪本身就是尊重人的外在表现形式，"礼仪"从话里来，话从心中来，只有从内心尊重人，才会有得体的礼仪言行，尊重他人是人与人接触的必要和首要态度。学习"礼仪"要重在实践，一个人的礼仪只能在言行中才能反映出来，不说不动就不能说某个人有没有"礼仪"，每个人都要在理解礼仪要求的基础上，敢于在日常的言行中、平时的待人接物中展现自己文明有礼的形象。一些学生平时也知道要讲文明、懂礼貌，但在公共场合或遭遇到不很熟悉的人时，其"礼仪"规范就无法发挥，这是他们缺乏自信的表现。
要想成为真正的君子，一定要有绅士风度，要有社会公德，有内涵；要想成为真正的闺秀则要求气质、谈吐、衣着打扮等方面都具有较高的个人修养。在现代文明社会里，礼仪已成为建立良好人际关系的基础。人在这个社会里，只有学会如何尊重人，如何与他人文明相处，才能真正自立于社会，才能自尊自爱，才能营造和谐融洽的人文环境和文明社会。
让我们一起来呼唤礼仪，呼唤文明，呼唤在不久的将来我们的校园再没有烫着卷发，染着彩头，带着各种饰物的形象出现；呼唤在不久的将来我们的校园再没骑着自行车穿梭的痕迹；呼唤在不久的将来我们中学的学子无论在哪里都说着文明的语言，做着文明的事。
回答者： 果吧悲剧 - 试用期 一级 9-27 19:32
如果你失去了今天，你不算失败，因为明天会再来。
如果你失去了金钱，你不算失败，因为人生的价值不在钱袋。
如果你失去了文明，你是彻彻底底的失败，因为你已经失去了做人的真谛。
文明涵盖了人与人、人与社会、人与自然之间的关系。它的主要作用，一是追求个人道德完善，一是维护公众利益、公共秩序。
说到文明礼仪，我想到了一个故事。有一次，列宁同志下楼，在楼梯狭窄的过道上，正碰见一个女工端着一盆水上楼。那女工一看是列宁，就要退回去给让路。列宁阻止她说：“不必这样，你端着东西已走了半截，而我现在空手，请你先过去吧！”他把“请”字说得很响亮，很亲切。然后自己紧靠着墙，让女工上楼了，他才下楼。这不也是良好文明礼仪的体现么？
这里我不想过多地举伟人的例子，因为这很容易令大家产生一种错觉：认为文明礼仪只是伟人、名人才具备，那么我们将无需为自己或多或少的不文明言行而愧疚；或者认为即使践行了文明的要求，也并不因之成为伟人、名人。我们不但要有讲道德的大人物，我们更需要一群有道德的民众。
一个社会的公共文明水平，可以折射出一个社会一个国家的文明程度，一个人如果不遵守社会文明，小的会影响自身形象，大的会影响国家声誉。在清朝的时候，大臣李鸿章出使俄国，在一公开场合，恶习发作，随地吐了一口痰，被外国记者大加渲染、嘲弄，丢尽了中国人的脸。这是一个不遵守社会文明的历史教训。
公共文明是社会意识的一种体现，而公共文明又建立在个人的道德修养水平之上。试想一下，如果有人不注重自身的文明修养，他会有良好的公共文明吗？不会！个人文明礼仪是根、是本。人要有良好的公共文明必须先从自身做起，从身边做起。所以鲁迅先生说：“中国欲存争于天下，其首在立人，人立而后凡事举。”“立人”的意思便是要完善人的思想和文明修养，人的文明修养并不是与生俱来的，而是靠后天不断完善的。要完善个人修养，首先要致力于读书求学，完善自身的认知水平；认知到达一定水平，就有了明辨是非的能力；有了分辨是非善恶的能力，就要端正自身的心态，不违背自己的良知，努力使自己的一言一行都符合道德的标准，自己的修养便得到完善。这就是古人所说的：格物、致知、诚意、正心、修身。完善个人道德修养，便有了推进社会公共文明的基础。
而一个社会的文明氛围对他的民众亦有莫大的影响。为什么这么讲呢？相信有的同学去过欧洲或日本，就很有亲身体会。大的不说，只看看过马路这样的小事。只要亮起红灯，纵使马路上一辆车都没有，外国人绝不会过马路。他们认为这是必须遵守的公共文明。试问，在如此的氛围中，有谁会肆无忌惮的闯红灯呢？这就是社会氛围的力量所在。但再想一想，如果我们不是从自身做起，这社会氛围又从何而来呢？
有记者访问一个获得诺贝尔奖的科学家，“教授，您人生最重要的东西是在哪儿学到的呢？”，“在幼儿园。在那里，我学到了令我终身受益的东西，比如说，有好东西要与朋友分享，谦让，吃饭前要洗手……”我们完善自己的文明修养也一样，并非一定要有什么了不起的举措，而是要从身边吃饭洗手这些小事做起。养成文明的习惯，使文明的观念从意识层次进入无意识层次，使文明贯穿我们的一举一动。
我们从小接受文明礼仪的教育，很多同学都可以滔滔不绝地大谈文明礼仪。可是看见校园中随处丢弃的饭盒，饮料瓶，听着某些同学口中吐出的脏话，怎能不教人痛心疾首呢！难道我们都是“语言的巨人，行动的矮人”么？明代大学者王守仁说“知是行的主意，行是知的功夫；知是行之始，行是知之成；知和行是一个本体、一个功夫。知而不行，只是未知。”我们接受文明礼仪的教育，自己却吝于履行、甚至反其道而行之，这跟从来没有接受社会教育有什么区别!所以我们要实践社会文明，就要从这“知行合一”上下功夫、从自己的坐言起行上下功夫，就要告别不文明的行为。