good afternoon.
as i see this problem, i think men should ask for the dates are much better.
although nowadays things change a lot, i still hold the minds gentlemen should do care for the ladies well.
to be gentlemen, whatever in work place but also in private activites, men should be more active and be willing to solve the problems like this.
but as for the payment part, i tend to hold a fair attitude on it.
dates for two, and it's natrual to share the payment by two, isn't it?
this is my thoughts on it. it doesn't mean people should achieve it without any personal styles.
adults are capable to do their own decisions on different situations.
that's my opinions on the two questions.
one more thing i need to declare loudly is that dates is the important element lead both sides to fall in love and this the final we shouldn't forget thinking it much more.
thank you for your time. and good day
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