What should I do?
I met a boy on Internet.We met in a Online English Coner.We can talk and chat there.Cause my voice sounds nice,and I can speak quite good English,there's many people would like to talk with me.And I became quite popular in that English Chatting room.
I knew that boy just by chance.Cause he can speak quite good English,and he's also one of the admin in that chatting room.Just like me,we're all tempoary admin there.One day,he just told me that he likes me,I felt surprised.Then asked him the reason.He answered,cause you like dogs,and I like dogs,then I like you.I thought he was kidding me.But he asked me to marry him after that.But what he said is:"would you like to marry me when you grow up?"I answered:"No!"
But after that,I thought a lot.I never pay any attition to him before that.But after that,I started to pay much attiton on him.I thought I started to like him.
But I don't know what should I do.Cause I am still so young,just a middle school student.But he's just much older than me.I don't know weather he took that serious or not.But I did.
SO please,what should I do,and what can I do for that?
The reason I surf the internet is learn English.
Everyone tell our students like that.I shouldn't fall in love.
I thought he was kidding me the first time he told me like that.But after that day on,he keet telling me that.And he even told others that I am his girlfriend(Even I did not agree).
I didn't mean what should I treat this problem,it's so boring.I heard of that for thousands times!
What I wanna know about it is as a student,I can take care of my studies,it's not a problem.And I just wanna know can I deal with these two at the same time...
Or otherwise I didn't explan it so clear.
And for him,I never thought he will take that real seriously,or something.And I could never like him.Though we are in the same city,but never met each other.And we only chat online.That's all.There will have nothing happen,that's obvious.I am not that silly!
Then this question is just like something I can do at my age.
have to concentrate your mind on your study.
There are huge opportunities after you
finish your study and enter into the society.
I don't think you surf on the internet just
to make boy friends, so your purpose is to
raise your English level rather than this
immature love.Thinking of what you want this
period, you will handle tI know what you are thinking.
:)Treat him as an ordinary friend.That is what you can do.when you are a college student,you can consider to meet him...
Just as you said,you only talk on internet,and you know little about him.In that case,keep the friendship between you and him until you enter the university.Of course,right now,you should tell him you are not his GF clearly.his matter squarely
Wish you good luck.1. 正面: 那男管理员也蛮可爱的, 至少他可能查看了你的个人资料,知道你喜欢小狗. 蛮细心的嘛..
负面: 但也不排除他有偷窥癖好, 以偷看人家的细节隐私为乐...
2. 正面: 喜欢去逛英语角的男生坏不到哪里去, 就算坏,起码也是个有文化的流氓,对不~
负面: 这种男生仅仅因为与你有同样的小动物情节而喜欢你... 这感情基础基本是很不牢靠的~~ 万一哪天他遇见喜欢兔子, 喜欢猫的呢? 这两种都比小狗更招人喜欢呢... 那时候他改口说喜欢兔子什么的, 你就亏大了
3. 你的意志也太不坚定了!!! 之前他没对你示好时, 你对他什么感觉都没, 一旦他开了口, 你居然立马松口了!! 就算他很优秀吧, 你也得检讨检讨是不? 要知道, 男生对轻易到手的猎物往往都不会太珍惜~
4. 老生长谈一句, 珍爱生命~远离网恋~
回头看看你身边的男生们, 也许他们都不那么出众, 不那么耀眼~1. 会上英语角不代表他绝对不是流氓，陈冠希的英语应该有过之而无不及。
2. 即使他不是流氓也不代表他对你的感觉很可信，网络上因为看不见，说话可以不负责任。
3. 即使他是一个负责任的人，但因为他也没见过你，只听过声音，对你的感觉只建立在这个基础上未免不是很可靠，也许他是真的喜欢上了你，这种喜欢在你们互相见过后有没有继续发展的可能，难说。
4. 你对他的喜欢也是因为他先表白，女孩子容易被男方的情绪带动，这是很危险的，特别在看不见对方的样子时，少了可以牵制感情的外型的因素做参考，给了你任意发展感情的空间，等你深险进去才发现对方的外貌让你难以接受双方都会很受伤。
5. 他说的喜欢你的理由很勉强，世上喜欢狗的人多了去了，他身边肯定也不少，单凭这一点难以让人信服。试问你自己，会因为随便一个男生喜欢狗就爱上对方了吗？
6. 从你目前的生活来看，单单对付学习也许游刃有余，但又要学习又要谈情也许不一定胜任。大量事实证明，女生的情绪比较容易波动，一但动情整个生活都受波及。感情发展顺利则已，一旦有变动则难以自控，那时为时已晚。
7. 他说等你长大，如果他不可靠，则你用错情；如果他一往情深，但你毕竟还小，你身上的变数大，万一以后是你变心，岂不伤人？
所以，结论就是：wrong timing, just forget about it and move on.
但这正好说明他们在你面前不刻意做作, 对你的真诚是拿尺子都可以量出来的...
所以你不必感到慌张，你觉得自己有点喜欢上他是正常的事，just take it easy, and time will tell if it's your true love or just a short-time thing.
further more, he's much elder than you. As an adult myself, I think he just treat you like a cute little girl.就是他萌上你了，觉得你很可爱，说要娶你也是那种对小女孩的语气吧， so don't take it seriously, alright?
该做什么就做什么，偶尔会想起他的事也不要有奇怪的感觉，因为我开头提到过的那个状态，在我看来你应该过不了多久就会不在意他的事了。
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as your description goes on, it becomes more and more clear that he just adores you. BUT THAT IS NOT LOVE! image you were watching an anime, say 火影忍者, and you find that 佐助 is so handsome. here the feeling comes! you might say -- oh dear god, i just love him! i wanna own him!! he's my sugar!!!
BUT, I'm sure that somewhere inside you know it perfectly -- you will not spend the rest of your life with him.
got my meaning? he really adores you, but he does NOT love you! he's feelings on you could not support him to spend the rest of his life with you. he might help you when you are in trouble, but he will never be the one who is willing to do everything for you.
so pick up your mind, enjoy his adoration, take it easy and make life goes on!
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既然你现在知道了他不是认真的，也肯定了你不会喜欢他，你们之间不会发生什么，那么对于这个问题你也应该不再困扰了吧。关于你应该怎么做，我依然建议你：“该做什么就做什么，偶尔会想起他的事也不要有奇怪的感觉，因为我开头提到过的那个状态，在我看来你应该过不了多久就会不在意他的事了。 ”“pick up your mind, enjoy his adoration, take it easy and make life goes on!”
或者你用中文到知道专门解决这些问题的分区里去问，能够得到更多的帮助，毕竟术业有专攻= =
另外，虽然你的英语表达有不少小错误，但作为中学生已经很不错了，加油哦~
负面: 但也不排除他有偷窥癖好, 以偷看人家的细节隐私为乐...
2. 正面: 喜欢去逛英语角的男生坏不到哪里去, 就算坏,起码也是个有文化的流氓,对不~
负面: 这种男生仅仅因为与你有同样的小动物情节而喜欢你... 这感情基础基本是很不牢靠的~~ 万一哪天他遇见喜欢兔子, 喜欢猫的呢? 这两种都比小狗更招人喜欢呢... 那时候他改口说喜欢兔子什么的, 你就亏大了
3. 你的意志也太不坚定了!!! 之前他没对你示好时, 你对他什么感觉都没, 一旦他开了口, 你居然立马松口了!! 就算他很优秀吧, 你也得检讨检讨是不? 要知道, 男生对轻易到手的猎物往往都不会太珍惜~
4. 老生长谈一句, 珍爱生命~远离网恋~
回头看看你身边的男生们, 也许他们都不那么出众, 不那么耀眼~
但这正好说明他们在你面前不刻意做作, 对你的真诚是拿尺子都可以量出来的...
忠言逆耳, 就不多得罪你了...
2. 即使他不是流氓也不代表他对你的感觉很可信，网络上因为看不见，说话可以不负责任。
3. 即使他是一个负责任的人，但因为他也没见过你，只听过声音，对你的感觉只建立在这个基础上未免不是很可靠，也许他是真的喜欢上了你，这种喜欢在你们互相见过后有没有继续发展的可能，难说。
4. 你对他的喜欢也是因为他先表白，女孩子容易被男方的情绪带动，这是很危险的，特别在看不见对方的样子时，少了可以牵制感情的外型的因素做参考，给了你任意发展感情的空间，等你深险进去才发现对方的外貌让你难以接受双方都会很受伤。
5. 他说的喜欢你的理由很勉强，世上喜欢狗的人多了去了，他身边肯定也不少，单凭这一点难以让人信服。试问你自己，会因为随便一个男生喜欢狗就爱上对方了吗？
6. 从你目前的生活来看，单单对付学习也许游刃有余，但又要学习又要谈情也许不一定胜任。大量事实证明，女生的情绪比较容易波动，一但动情整个生活都受波及。感情发展顺利则已，一旦有变动则难以自控，那时为时已晚。
7. 他说等你长大，如果他不可靠，则你用错情；如果他一往情深，但你毕竟还小，你身上的变数大，万一以后是你变心，岂不伤人？
所以，结论就是：wrong timing, just forget about it and move on.
我知道这男孩刚刚由chance.cause他能说不错的英语，而且他也是其中之一，政府当局在这聊天room.just和我一样，我们都是tempoary管理员there.one一天，他刚刚告诉我说，他很喜欢我，我就觉得surprised.then问他reason.he回答，使你像狗，我喜欢狗，然后我喜欢you.i以为他是在开玩笑me.but他问我嫁给他后that.but他说的是： "你想嫁给我，当你长大了吗？ "我回答说： "不！ "
但之后，我沉思了lot.i从未支付任何attition他之前that.but之后，我开始支付attiton对him.i以为我开始喜欢他。
不过，我不知道我应该怎么do.cause我仍然这么年轻，只是一个中学生student.but他只是很多年纪比me.i不知道天气，他说，严重或not.but我就照着做。
所以请各位，我应该怎么做，我能做些什么是什么？
问题补充：我从来没有想过我会嫁给他，所以wit1994我猜你误会。
我知道我要学习harder.and正因如此，我在互联网上冲浪，是学习english.but现在，我只是得到一些烫手山芋。
什么silkrug告诉我，是正确的，我知道that.everyone告诉我们的学生喜欢that.i不应该支付任何attition爱情。
现在，我不知道是天气，他的开玩笑，我的所有时间或他有分说， seriously.i并购还年轻，我不能判断thoese things.then我只希望其他人能帮助me.thx了很多。