做人不要随意评价别人
人生在世，常常产生想解释点什么的想法，然而，一旦解释起来，却发现任何人解释都是那样的苍白无力，甚至还会越抹越黑。因此，做人不需要解释，便成为智者的选择。山不解释自己的高度，并不影响它的耸立云端；海不解释自己的深度，并不影响它容纳百川；地不解释自己的厚度，但没有谁能取代她作为承载万物的地位。千万别低估和轻视任何人，不要歧视任何比我们弱小的人或者生命，尤其不要伤害老实人，老实人被逼上绝路了，最后欺辱老实人的人，命运一般都很悲惨，因为怨恨和屈辱会让一个好人变成狰狞的魔鬼，这种傲慢和屈辱会让“施害者”和“受害者”，这两个角色倒过来，一起毁灭。
把自己看得淡而又淡，这个是大智慧，你没那么多观众，别那么累。温和对人对事。不要随意发脾气，谁都不欠你的。现在很痛苦，等过阵子回头看看，会发现其实那都不算事。学会宽容伤害自己的人，因为他们很可怜，各人都有自己的难处，大家都不容易。学会放弃，拽的越紧，患得患失，最痛苦的是自己。取舍间，必有得失，所以，得之，我幸运，失之，我命，尽人事，顺天命。不要试图给自己找任何借口，错误面前没人爱听那些借口。学会妥协的同时，也要坚持自己最基本的原则，这个分寸和火候的把握很重要，中庸之道才是根本。付出并不一定有结果。坚持可能会导致失去更多，所以当断则断，否则反受其乱.过去的事情尽量忘记，而且一定要放下，背负太多，以后再遭遇更大的压力，就会无法承受，走向极端。
活得轻松，任何事都作一个最好的打算和最坏的打算，先看看自己有没有承受最坏的结果的能力和勇气，如果没有，就最好不要把事情想得那么好。做一个简单的人，踏实而务实。不沉溺幻想，不好高骛远，不庸人自扰。不要说谎话，因为总有被拆穿的一天，为了一时的尊严，以后被揭穿，却更丢脸，付出的代价更大。所以要尽量活得真诚而坦率。别人光鲜的背后或者有着太多不为人知的痛苦和辛酸，富贵险中求，得到和付出平等，风险和利润平等。尽量充实自己。不要停止学习。注意自己的修养，身教胜于言教，身为父母就是孩子的第一位老师。孝顺父母。不只是嘴上说说，即使多打几个电话也是很好的，要做在实处。爱父母，因为他们给了你生命，同时也是爱你爱的最无私的人。
做人不要随意评价别人
人生在世，常常产生想解释点什么的想法，然而，一旦解释起来，却发现任何人解释都是那样的苍白无力，甚至还会越抹越黑。因此，做人不需要解释，便成为智者的选择。山不解释自己的高度，并不影响它的耸立云端；海不解释自己的深度，并不影响它容纳百川；地不解释自己的厚度，但没有谁能取代她作为承载万物的地位。千万别低估和轻视任何人，不要歧视任何比我们弱小的人或者生命，尤其不要伤害老实人，老实人被逼上绝路了，最后欺辱老实人的人，命运一般都很悲惨，因为怨恨和屈辱会让一个好人变成狰狞的魔鬼，这种傲慢和屈辱会让“施害者”和“受害者”，这两个角色倒过来，一起毁灭。
把自己看得淡而又淡，这个是大智慧，你没那么多观众，别那么累。温和对人对事。不要随意发脾气，谁都不欠你的。现在很痛苦，等过阵子回头看看，会发现其实那都不算事。学会宽容伤害自己的人，因为他们很可怜，各人都有自己的难处，大家都不容易。学会放弃，拽的越紧，患得患失，最痛苦的是自己。取舍间，必有得失，所以，得之，我幸运，失之，我命，尽人事，顺天命。不要试图给自己找任何借口，错误面前没人爱听那些借口。学会妥协的同时，也要坚持自己最基本的原则，这个分寸和火候的把握很重要，中庸之道才是根本。付出并不一定有结果。坚持可能会导致失去更多，所以当断则断，否则反受其乱.过去的事情尽量忘记，而且一定要放下，背负太多，以后再遭遇更大的压力，就会无法承受，走向极端。
活得轻松，任何事都作一个最好的打算和最坏的打算，先看看自己有没有承受最坏的结果的能力和勇气，如果没有，就最好不要把事情想得那么好。做一个简单的人，踏实而务实。不沉溺幻想，不好高骛远，不庸人自扰。不要说谎话，因为总有被拆穿的一天，为了一时的尊严，以后被揭穿，却更丢脸，付出的代价更大。所以要尽量活得真诚而坦率。别人光鲜的背后或者有着太多不为人知的痛苦和辛酸，富贵险中求，得到和付出平等，风险和利润平等。尽量充实自己。不要停止学习。注意自己的修养，身教胜于言教，身为父母就是孩子的第一位老师。孝顺父母。不只是嘴上说说，即使多打几个电话也是很好的，要做在实处。爱父母，因为他们给了你生命，同时也是爱你爱的最无私的人。
Be a man, don't judge others
Life, often want to explain what, however, once explained, but found that any explanation is so feeble, even with the darker. Therefore, the person does not need to explain, then becomes the wise choice. Hill did not explain their height, does not affect its towering clouds; the sea do not explain their depth, it does not affect the capacity of rivers; to explain their thickness, but no one can replace her as the bearer of the status of all things. Don't underestimate and despise anyone, than we do not discriminate against any weak people or life, especially not to hurt the honest people, honest people finally cornered, bullying honest people who are generally very miserable fate, because of hatred and humiliation would make a good man into a ferocious devil, such arrogance and humiliation let "the perpetrators" and "victims", these two roles were reversed, with destruction.
To see their own pale and weak, this is a great wisdom, you do not have so many viewers, do not so tired. Moderate to people. Don't lose your temper, no one owes you. Now is very painful, so look, will find that in fact it is not. Learn to forgive people who hurt themselves, because they are very poor, everyone has their own difficulties, we are not easy. Learn to give up, pull the more tight, the pain is yourself worry about personal gains and losses. The choice between, there will be a loss, so, too, I'm lucky, lost, my life, the best, CIS fate. Don't try to find any excuse for the error before the unlovedones. Learn to compromise at the same time, we should also stick to the basic principles of the propriety and it is important to grasp the furnace, a middle course is the fundamental. Pay is not necessarily a result. Insist on may lead to lose more, so when it is broken, or the chaos. Try to forget the past things, and we must go, carry too much, then it will encounter greater pressure, will be unable to bear, go to extremes.
To live comfortably, and to make the best of everything and the worst, first, to see if you have the ability and the courage to accept the worst. If you don't, you'd better not think so. To be a simple person, practical and pragmatic. Do not indulge in fantasy, not ambitious, don't worry. Don't lie, because there are always within a day, for a moment of dignity, after being exposed, more humiliating, pay more. So try to live sincerely and frankly. Others dressed behind, or there are too many unknown pain and bitterness, wealth insurance requirements, and pay equal risk and profit equality. Try to enrich yourself. Don't stop learning. To pay attention to their own self-cultivation, the body is better than teaching, as a parent is the child's first teacher. Filial parents. Not just the mouth to say, even if more than a few phone calls is also very good, to be done in real. Love their parents, because they give you life, but also love you love the most selfless people.
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