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Making new friends mean ( putting) yourself out on a limb and asking others not only to accept you, but ot like you and want to be around you as well.
交新朋友意味着让自己不再孤立，而且不仅仅是让别人接受你，而是喜欢你并且也想待在你身边。
(Unfortunately), this is no magical solution ( to/for) this part of the process, so if you want to make friend, take a deep breath and jump right in!
不幸地，实现这一步并没有什么神奇的解决方法可以一蹴而就，所以，如果你想交朋友，那么就深呼吸，按照下面的步子来
( The) first step to making new friends is figuring out what is holding you back. A lot of times people ( who) are interested in making new friends don't know why they don't have them already. They can't see that ( their) own actions are working against them.
交朋友的第一步是想清楚是什么在拖你后腿。有很多人有兴趣交朋友但是却不知道为什么他们身边的朋友却都没了。他们没有意识到自己的行为已经和自己的朋友相背离了。
Once you can identify what is keeping you from making new freinds, you need to work through these concerns. This can be painful ( for/because ) you will need to put yourself outside of your comfort zones to see any real differences.
一旦你能够明确什么才能让你结交新朋友，你需要就这样做。这可能会让你略感痛苦，因为你需要把自我从自己独立的那个舒服的空间释放出来，去面对那些真实的困难。
The next step is to shine in thses social settings so that others will leave with a positive (impression) . If you find social situations hard, just rely on a few simple rules.
下一步就是在社交场合让自己闪光，这样其他人就会同样充满激情。如果你发现社交状况很难，那就倚靠一些简单的规则。（啥意思，这句话可能不是这么翻译的，估计要意会）
When you feel ( confident) that you've made some great new friends, get out there and celebrate with them! No matter (what) you decide to do, the important thing is to celebrate your new friends and hopefully continue cultivating more.
当你感到自信那么你已经交到很多很棒的新朋友了，快和他们一起出去庆祝庆祝吧！无论你是否决定这么做，重要的是要祝贺你的新朋友，并且希望能够交到更多朋友。（或者是培养更深的感情）
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