不主动发起聊天，是看不到的。加入黑名单后，对方就会从自己的通信录中删除，但是自己仍然在对方的通信录中。只是对方看不到你的朋友圈了。
微信拉黑的好友怎么恢复：
首先登录到自己的微信账号，然后点击屏幕右上角的三个小点，如图所示：
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点击右上角的三个小点以后出现下拉菜单，再菜单上面点击设置，如图所示：
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点击设置以后进入到设置窗口，在窗口上面点击隐私，如图所示：
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点击隐私以后进入到隐私窗口，在窗口上面点击通讯录黑名单，如图所示：
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点击通讯录黑名单以后看到被拉黑的好友，点击要恢复的好友，如图所示：
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点击要恢复的好友之后进入到该好友的详细资料窗口，在窗口上面点击右上角的按钮，如图所示：
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点击右上角的按钮以后出现下拉菜单，在菜单上面点击移出黑名单，这样被拉黑的好友就恢复了。
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