英语作文如何与父母相处

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How to get along well with your parents? I get on well with my parents . I love them very much . After supper , We always watch TV ,AND talk ABOUT the things happen to us today . We are very happy to spend time playing games together . Although sometimes we ARE in disagreement ,it can't continue for one day . Once I failed my test , they weren't angry with me. Instead , they helped me find out the reason and help me find comfidence anew(重新) . And at(IN) the next exam , I was successful. I think we should spend more our free time chatting with them and telling them something about yourself they want to know.Next regard your parents as your friends. We are in youthhood(青春期) now . We begin to hate our parents' chatter(唠叨).We always like talking to our friends than to our parents . We always think our parents can't know us better than our friends. But we don't know it's love.Finally,study hard . Although we may not get the one prise , our parents will be very happy.
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第1个回答  2013-10-16
1. make a list of the things that you and your parents fight about the most.
  2. identify(确定) what it is that gets you so upset or angry--are you mad that your parents disagree with you, or are you upset that they can't/won't see your point of view3?
  3.decide on a fair compromise (和解,妥协)--a resolution (解决)that you can live with and that you think your parents' will accept. note: a compromise means you give up some of your demands--it does not mean that you get your way4.
  4. set up a time to talk to your parents, do not just bring it up over dinner but make an actual ap- pointment and tell them that you have an important proposal(提议,建议) to make.
  5. bring your notes with you to the meeting so you can stay on track if/when emmotions get high. you may even want to consider reading the note to your parents like a speech.
  6. before talking to your parents, take a few deep breaths and think calming thoughts. make a promise to yourself that you will not raise your voice or get angry even if your parents "turn up the volume."
  7. when you have presented your case(实情, 情况)take another deep breath and let your parents talk. really listen to what your parents have to say. even if you do not like what they are saying hold back your anger and keep your ears and mind open.
  8. avoid shutting down or growing frustrated5. avoid interrupting them or jumping in with a rebuttal(反驳). just listen and absorb what they say.
  9. if your parents reject your proposal, stay focused and avoid getting emmotional (情绪激动的). thank them for their time and express your disappointmentthatyoucouldnotreacha compromise.
  10. if your parents accept your proposal, be grateful and assure them that you will not let them down. then do everything necessary to show them they made the right decision in going along6 with you.
  11. whatever the outcome, besure to do what your parents ask of you. by going along with their wishes you build trust and show your maturity(成熟) which in turn may make them more willing to relax their stand at a future date.
  12. if the topic is a very sensitive one and you still can't see eye to eye,ask your parents what they need from you in order for them to consider your proposal.
  13. make a vow(誓言,誓约) to give them what they need and ask them if you can agree to revisit the subject in a few weeks time.
  14. if the outcome disappoints you, do not throw a fit7.go to your room and write your feelings in a journal or go outside and ride your bike or punch(猛击) a pillow to blow off steam本回答被网友采纳
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