名利是好还是坏

Question

如题所述

Answer 1

名利这个东西，其实不能简单地用好与坏来评价。它是一个双刃剑，关键在于我们如何去看待和使用它。

从正面来看，名利可以激励人们努力奋斗，追求卓越，从而推动社会的发展。同时，获得名和利也是个人价值和能力的体现，有助于提高个人自信心和成就感。在这个意义上，名利可以被看作是一种积极的推动力。

然而，从负面来看，过分追求名利可能导致人们忽略生活中的其他重要方面，如家庭、友情和健康。此外，名利也容易让人产生虚荣心、骄傲和嫉妒等负面情绪，影响人际关系和社会和谐。在这个意义上，名利又可能成为一种消极的破坏力。

所以，关键在于我们如何去对待名利。我们应该把名利看作是一种手段，而不是目的，用它来推动我们更好地服务他人、回馈社会，而不是让它成为我们生活的唯一追求。当我们能够正确看待名利时，它就能成为我们人生的助力，让我们的人生更加丰富多彩。

Answer 2

Fame—Good or Evil

Whenever talking about fame, many people will list its advantages or disadvantages firstly. Very often, I hear people say that fame can bring celebrity and regards to one and more importantly, it can help one attract public attention. While other people say that fame is an evil for it can make one trapped in it and then destroy his life. However, has anyone ever thought about that, it is whether fame itself that does these good or bad stuffs, or our attitudes towards it make the differences?

Just like many other things in the world, fame is neither good nor bad by nature. The reason that makes people think there are differences between good fame and bad fame lies in the attitude towards it. We know that different person owns different attitude towards fame, so different people runs after different kinds of fame, and then fame differ from one to another, thus there come the advantages and disadvantages of fame.

What’s your definition of “fame”? Or what kind of fame do you want? If the answer is flowers, statues and money, I have to say “Being careful! You are advancing fame in a dangerous direction!” the fact is when people run after a kind of fame like this, they may easily got themselves trapped into an endless cycle of pursuing more and more fame, and never to be satisfied. When having grasped one thing that they think is one kind of fame, they will compare it with others’ consciously or not. And they will find there is always someone owning more than them so they will begin the journey again. It is endless. Finally they will lose themselves on the road of seeking for fame. Many famous stars are on this road.

But when we regard fame as reputation, honor of oneself, or road to achieve the meaning of life, we may see a positive aspect of it. Good reputation requires one cling to his self-discipline or self-control all the time, which can drive him to act well and own good manners. Honor can strong one’s will and firm his actions towards great goals. This can be easily understood in the era of war-“Fighting for the honor of our motherland!” And fame is also a good tool for some people who have the world in their hearts. Good fame means a big affection or a powerful leadership. The person who owns a good fame can more easily affect and lead the public towards better transformations. And it is important for the building of history.

Above all of these, we can see that it is not fame itself but our attitude towards it that makes fame be good or evil. Only when we have realized this, can we know how to definite fame rightly and let it play a positive role in our self-development.