make up your mind to succeed全文翻译Make Up Your Min

to Succeed
Kind-hearted parents have unknowingly left their children defenseless against failure.The
generation born between 1980 and 2001 grew up playing sports where scores and
performance were played down because "everyone's winner." And their report cards
sounded more positivethan ever before.As a result,Stanford University professor Carol
Dweck,PhD,calls them "the overpraised generation."
Dweck has been studying how people deal with failure for 40 years.Her research
has led her to find out two clearly different mind-sets that have a great effect on how we
react to it.Here's how they work:
A fixed mind-set is grounded in the belief that talent (才能) is genetic - you're a born
artist,point guard,or numbers person.The fixed mind-set believes it's sure to succeed
without much effort and regards failure as personal shame.When things get difficult,it's
quick to blame,lie,and even stay away from future difficulties.
On the other hand,a growth mind-set believes that no talent is entirely heaven-sent
and that effort and learning make everything possible.Because the ego (自尊) isn't on t
he line as much,the growth mind-set sees failure as a chance rather than shame.When
faced with a difficulty,it's quick to rethink,change and try again.In fact,it enjoys this
experience.
We are all born with growth mind-sets.(Otherwise,we wouldn't be able to live in
the world.) But parents,teachers,and instructors often push us into fixed min

成功善良的父母在不知情的情况下离开自己的孩子不能抵抗失败,1980和2001之间出生的一代长大的运动成绩和表现都打下来,因为“每个人都是赢家。”他们的报告卡听起来以前更积极的不是。因此,斯坦福大学教授Carol Dweck,博士,称他们为“过奖了代。”Dweck一直在研究人们如何应对失败的40年,她的研究使她发现两个明显不同的心态,我们如何对它的反应有很大的影响。这是如何工作的:一个固定的心态是基于这样的信念,人才(才能)是遗传你是一个天生的艺术家,控球后卫,或数人的固定的思维—集相信,它肯定会成功,没有太多的努力,把失败看作是个人的耻辱。当事情变得困难,它很快责怪,谎言,甚至远离未来的困难。另一方面,成长的心态认为没有才华完全是天赐的,努力和学习可以让一切成为可能。因为自我(自尊)不在那么多,这种成长的心态认为失败是一个机会,而不是耻辱。当面对困难,很快重新思考,改变并再试一次。事实上,有这方面的经验。我们生来就有成长的心态,(否则,我们就不能生活在这个世界上),但是父母、老师和老师经常把我们推到固定的时间里
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