一篇初三完形，希望大家帮我翻译一下，不要答案谢谢啊

Question

I once thought I would be a perfect mother. It __31__ me 16 years to learn that I could not be. I know that I make some mistakes. __32__ I could raise my children again, I __33__ repeat those mistakes. Maybe I would make new __34__. But I think I would do a _35___ job.

I would try to understand my children. I often did what my __36__ would have done. I __37__ their ways of raising children. For example, I had my 13-year-old son, David, come home early, but he __38__ this rule. He saw no reason for it. __39__ a girl, I had to be home early. I wanted my son to do the __40__ thing. Now I would think more about why I wanted things done in a certain way.

My father was sick when I was young. So my sister, my brother and I were __41__ all the time. We did not cry in anger and we didn’t laugh for __42__. I just wanted my children to be quiet, too. I never stopped __43__ “why”.

It was hard for me to let my children show anger. I __44__ them when they started to get angry. Now I would tell my children, “ It is all right to show love and it is right to show anger. Your feelings are good. I love you no matter __45__ you feel.”

Answer 1

试试.....，能力有限，只能到这水平了
我以前认为我会成为一个完美的母亲，它XX我16年的时间去学习，但是我没有做到。我知道我犯了一些错误，XX我再一次提醒我的孩子，我XX弥补这些错误。也许我还会犯一些新的XX。但是我认为我做了一个XX的工作。
我试着去理解我的孩子，我经常做我XX做过的事，我XX他们的方式来提醒他们。例如，我有个13岁的儿子，戴维，回家很早。但是他破坏了规则。他说没有理由。XX一个女孩，我必须早早的回家。我想我的儿子去做XX事了。现在，我想了更多，为什么我想要所有事都用同一种方式呢
我的父亲在我很小的时候就病了。所以，我的姐姐，哥哥和我都在XX,在所有的时间里。我们要像个天使不能哭，也要像个XX不能笑。我仅仅想要我的孩子保持安静。我从不停止XX为什么。
对我来说很难，像个天使一样对我的孩子。我XX他们，当他们开始生气的时候。现在我想告诉我的孩子‘去表现爱和像个天使是对的，你的感觉很好，我爱你，，无论你的感觉XX.
差不多可以做答案了。不过得看你认不认识选项的单词了。